Thursday, July 17, 2008

What is Love

Love ....What a smart word! We all think about this word. Human being are created in that way. American psychologist Zick Rubin try to define love by "three factors constitute love: attachment, caring and intimacy".But according to me,love is one of the most amazing thing in the world. Again, It could be the most hurtful feeling in the world.

There are two more words those are lust and infatuation. These three words are totally different. But most relationships are combination of them in some degree. But we always try to feel only one feeling that is love. Sometimes it overlaps, this is very much true.Psychologist Robert Sternberg said that, love has three different components: intimacy, commitment, and passion.

I believe, everybody has the ability to love. Some people get that very easily and some struggle for that. And there are also some people, those have really bad luck.They cant face their love. It can be without saying that, its really tough to love someone truly. To love, we have to Empathize,Expect nothing in return,Realize it can be lost and it must be unconditional.

Keep in mind that "True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be." :) . U have to feel it. No one can make you feel that.

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